Tips and Advice for Approaching and Hooking Up with Girls at Hostels
Master the art of hostel flirting with simple, real-world tips to turn your budget trip into unforgettable nights.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve shared a few stories about my own experiences staying at hostels. The idea came up because someone in my community asked about it, and it instantly took me back to those days when I was chasing financial freedom, strapped for cash, and always opting for hostels during my travels.
That period was wild — crazy moments, fun times, and some pretty meaningful stuff too. So I thought, why not put all those stories and lessons together? Maybe it’ll give some inspiration to anyone out there still living that budget-travel life.
After looking back on all these hostel experiences, I decided to write a quick guide on how to meet girls and move things forward while staying at hostels — mindset tips and practical advice based on what I’ve learned.
There’s a lot to say, but to keep it short and sweet, here’s the first version.
The original version in Chinese went up on my website about a month ago, and it got a great response. If you’re interested, you can pay to read the full thing or join my membership program on the site for free access to all future updates. Public platforms don’t really allow for big updates, so the membership’s the best way to stay in the loop.
What’s Covered Here:
Different types of hostels and how to avoid the bad ones if you’re looking for hookups
The golden rules for approaching girls at hostels, plus two important things to watch out for
Typical social situations where you can strike up conversations
Hidden social spots in hostels
Logistics for when it’s time to seal the deal
Action steps to take