No Instagram, No Social Media — How I Pulled a Smoking Hot Sydney Dancer/Model in Just a Few Days
From Melbourne Streets to My Bedroom: How I Hooked Up with a Belly Dancing Bombshell Who Was About to Leave for Sydney the Next Day
So, I got my phone fixed recently and, as luck would have it, I was able to recover some old chat logs — including one with this girl from Sydney. The story is pretty interesting and shows how a simple, no-social-media approach can work.
Yup, I went from cold approach to intimacy without any social media game. No Instagram, no fake pics, not even a “look at my awesome life” vibe.
Here’s another raw story for you.
No Social Media, Still Scored a 10
This all went down just before Christmas 2020, right after Melbourne came out of a pretty long lockdown. The city was like a bear waking up from hibernation — a little slow, but the vibe was relaxed.
One night, I was walking alone down Swanston Street near Chinatown when I spotted her — crazy curves, the Mediterranean vibe (Greek or Italian, I leave you to guess) — full lips, killer chest, and a body that made you look twice.
She was walking alone, just taking it slow. No hesitation, I walked right up to her and said,
“Hey, I think you’re really attractive. I just wanted to say hi.”
She seemed a little surprised, but super friendly. She said she doesn’t get approached much these days. Honestly, I was shocked — Melbourne’s a pretty open city when it comes to approaching people.
Turns out, she was from Sydney. That made sense — Sydney’s a faster-paced city, people are colder there, and on top of that, with the lockdowns, she probably hadn’t been approached in ages.
Vibes Were On Fire — From Dancing to Deep Talks
We ended up talking for a while — about her background, work, interests.
She was second-gen from a Mediterranean country, born and raised in Australia. She worked a regular job but also danced professionally and did some modeling on the side. Belly dancing was her thing.
She was in Melbourne for a project, but when the lockdowns hit, her plans fell apart. Now she was packing up to head back to Sydney.
And here’s the surprising part — we ended up talking philosophy.
She was reading a book about Stoicism, and it really helped her with her mindset lately. She even recommended it to me.
Funny enough, I’d been watching a bunch of physics videos on YouTube, and we ended up vibing on this random nerdy wavelength.
That’s what I love about cold approach — you can not only meet cool people, but you end up learning something you didn’t expect too.
I invited her for drinks after the chat.
She couldn’t that night, but gave me her number. But there was one problem — it was her last week in Melbourne.